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Today I found another girl who hurts herself. In a world of unmet expectations it hurts to actually know that people hurt themselves to temporarily numb the pain they feel inside. We're all humans, aren't we? We do things rashly, we're quick to anger and sometimes say things we wished we never did. But when it comes to having a choice to hurt individuals, people still do it.

First, there's love. It's inevitable for people not to get hurt in a relationship (unless you're the lucky one in  a million who met the guy you'd be spending your life with). But what's controllable is the means of ending it and ways to handle the other party, isn't it. Admittedly I'm not a professional love guru but why do beings love making things so utterly screwed up when it's completely uncalled for. I don't understand.

And then there're bad friends. Those who'd talk about you behind you. I believe that as much as people abhor getting honestly opinionated in the face, what's it that gets on people's nerves more would be getting talked behind their backs. What's worse is when it travels around and the person gets to know about it...... I don't know man. I mean I can't understand why the one thing that's so difficult for humans to be is truthful.

Lastly of course, there's family. And being sandwiched in such circumstances doesn't permit you to have a say in anything because you were born and are bounded by an invisible cord to these people. But what you can do is to learn from it, not hurt yourself. Find good (true and proper) friends whom you can confide in, and stick to these few - they'll last you a lifetime.

Up till now I am fully unable to comprehend how can a person have a concept of substituting emotional sorrows with physical pain. Never did, never will. But if you're struggling and reading this, I want you to know that you're strong and abled enough to get by. You've lived till now, it wasn't easy and it's never gonna be. Continue loving, continue growing. You'll soon see the light at the end of this dark and lonesome tunnel you're passing by. And don't ever, for a second thinks that nobody cares. Because people do, you just haven't seen it yourself yet.